There’s nothing women find hotter than a man who knows what he wants. The flip side, of course, is also true: women are turned off by having to make decisions for wishy-washy partners. Of course, you’re not that guy. Never have been. But every now and then you will find yourself in a situation where the answers aren’t as obvious as you might hope. You’ll start hemming and hawing, without the decisiveness you usually show at work, at the game and with her. Do you push your relationship to the next level, or just enjoy where you are? If problems arise, do you stick it out, or pull the plug?