Here’s what you’re doing wrong and what you should be doing instead
THE NO-NO: QUICKLY RUBBING HER NIPPLES WITH A FLAT PALM
You’re not starting a fire, Boy Scout. “This is irritating,” says Dr Barbara Keesling, author of Sex So Great She Can’t Get Enough. “It’s like running a marathon braless as your T-shirt rubs your nipples.”
DO THIS: Be a tease. Cup her breast, slowly approach her nipple with your fingertip and then back off. “Keep doing that, getting closer and closer,” says Keesling. Once you touch down, stimulate her clitoris and nipple at the same pace, gradually increasing your speed. Nipple play can enhance the sensation in her genitals, Keesling says.
THE NO-NO: TUGGING ON HER BREASTS
You want to juggle her melons, not pick them. “Never pull her breasts downwards. That’s really bad for the ligaments,” says Keesling.
DO THIS: Support the bottoms or sides of her breasts during doggy. “Women with large breasts can be uncomfortable in that position. Some won’t do it unless they’re wearing a bra,” says Keesling. “Cupping gives support.” Another perfect position for holding her twins: woman on top.
THE NO-NO: NURSING HER NIPPLES
Sucking is sexy; suckling is creepy.
DO THIS: Use your awesome oral technique up top: gently run your tongue around her areola and nipple and then softly lick and suck both. If her breasts aren’t super sensitive, draw her entire nipple and areola into your mouth and push them against the roof of your mouth with your tongue.